I
saw something very sad last night at a Little League game…..a lonely “little
#3”, on the bench, with his back to me and his head down most of the time….he
probably couldn’t have hit the ball anyway…he’s pretty little. He didn’t look like the kind of a kid who’d
be picked early when you’re choosing sides but he was there early, warming up
and cheering with his friends.
His Dad came in about the 2nd
inning and I heard little #3 say, “we’re
doing bad Dad, but I get to play in the 6th!”. This was a 6-inning game, you see, and our
guys are usually ahead by then, so the “subs” get to go in…you know, when they
can’t hurt anything. You know how it
works, right?
Anyway,
last night was not this league-leaders night it seems. The team got behind 7-0 early, all on errors
and bad attitude, and amidst his teammates throwing bats and helmets and
complaining about how the ump didn’t call strikes fairly, little #3 kept
encouraging them and cheering and telling his Dad…”I get to go in in the
6th!”… Well our guys rallied in the 3rd with a run, added
2 more in the 4th, 2 more in the 5th and when our team was
ready to bat in the 6th it was 7-5 and the momentum had
changed…patient #3 kept asking,”now coach?
Can I bat now, huh?”
“Not
now kid, don’t you know we’re behind and we’ve got to have our good kids bat?”
Bat they did and they scored 4 more to go up
9-7 and now, “Coach can I play in the outfield now, can I huh? I can’t hurt anything there”… what he didn’t
say was that he’d been there early in the 90 degree weather, his Dad was right
behind him and he wanted to make his Dad proud, but
“After
all kid, we’re only ahead by 2 runs and we've got to stay in 1st
place and we will if only we win this game.
You understand don’t ya?
“Sure coach”
He
didn’t cry. You’re not supposed to cry
when you’re 10 and you’re littler than the other guys anyway and you’re trying
to be accepted…especially if you’re not a good player …so he sat on the bench
and cheered as the last enemy batter struck out on 3 pitches…and he threw his
glove in the air and exulted with his friends…they were the league champs you
see, they’d come from behind…they’d won!
Or had they? Once more we’ve
enforced the philosophy that its “win” …not “how you play the game” and little
#3 has gone through another summer, sitting on the bench, learning to be a
spectator…all he really wanted was a chance, even the chance to strike out…to
just try. Burt the peer pressure system
won again and as a result we’ve lost again…oh well #3 maybe next year…but then
again, probably not.
Paul
Harvey….summer 1984
Jim Thompson covered the little league
baseball game in Watertown, South Dakota
for KLSC, and that’s how I know about Peewee.
On the back of Peewee’s jersey is
#3…his teams on the field, he’s on the bench…behind him in the stands is his
Dad.
Pee Wee does not size up to the other players
so the coach calls him a “sub”. That
means while they play he sits.
.it’s
the game for the Little League championship and the pressure is on. But the coach has told Peewee he’d get to
play anyway ..sometime. Excitedly Pee
Wee tells his Dad, so Dads up there in the bleachers
smiling…
but
now the games not going right. its’ the
2nd inning and already Peewees teams is behind by 7 runs…now they’re
making fielding errors …getting down on one another and on themselves. That does not help, but it does not stop
Peewee from screaming encouragement…”Come on Guys, you can do it Guys, ..And
Peewees team began to turn the game around.
Scored one in the 3rd, 2 in the 4th, 2 more in the
fifth…now it’s the top of the 6th.
In Little League that’s the last inning.
The score is 7-5 and Peewees team is
losing..
”now
Coach” , the lad called out, “now can I bat?”
“Sorry
Kid”, the coach said, “we’ve got to have our best batters
up!”
And
sure enough the best batters scored 4 more runs. Now Peewees team is leading 9-7.
“Now coach?”
“Not now Kid”
and
finally the bottom of the inning, the team is taking the field for the last time
..and Pee Wee said,
“now
coach, now can I play outfield?”
Pee Wees sweat streaked face is looking up at
the coach and Dad is looking at both.
“Sorry
Pee Wee,” the coach said, “we’re only ahead by 2 and we’ve got to win this
game!” And then the coach added, “you do
understand, don’t ya kid?”
“Sure
Coach”
It’s 90 degrees hot in the Watertown sandlot,
Dad is watching, Pee Wee is sitting on his pride and his throat is scalded by
tears that he dare not show, and he does not.
He’s cheering for his teammates instead, through 3 more outs and when his
team wins, Peewee whoops and hollers and throws in glove in the air and slaps
his teammates on their backs …
I
am aware this replay is of little consequence beyond Watertown…nor even
there…and I am not going to contend that Peewee, #3, was his teams most valuable
player, that day, nor any day. I just
wanted to remind one little league coach…all little league coaches, what it
costs sometimes to win.
!